Every story has its beginning and mine started out really boring. My life was pretty much dull and, when my husband left me, I lost myself. I was sitting around the house, whining and being all miserable. My friends were giving me all kinds of names and telling me how I need to get out of there and start looking for something that will bring me back on track. Honestly, I didn’t want to do that. I wasn’t ready to engage into any kind of adult local dating or whatever it was that they were recommending me to do.
Anyway, there I was, completely alone in all of my misery and loneliness that I felt like I was losing myself. The entire house was neglected. I came to the point where I didn’t have any clean laundry or clean dishes. Before I realized, I was turning into an old crone with greasy hair and baggy clothes that I couldn’t recognize myself in the mirror. Just to make it clear, almost a month passed from the point where he left me and when I realized what was going on.
I decided to change that and do something about my life. First, I cleaned the house and then did some work on me. Once I was myself again, I started going out with my friends to the bars and clubs. There is only one word that can explain my experience over there – disaster! I was in shock as to what was going on in those clubs that I just wanted to run away as far as possible. The moment I came back home a great idea crossed my mind. I sat in front of my computer and started browsing for some free local dating websites.
I knew that clubs were never my thing, because I wasn’t able to have serious conversations in them. It was just too noisy and people were looking for just one thing – sex. Anyway, I found a really great website where I was able to meet lots of nice guys. Those men were very well educated and they knew exactly what they wanted in their lives. It was nice to finally talk to people who are eloquent and who understand your needs. I was lucky to find three guys on that site that seemed really nice and polite. Since this was the first time I’ve joined any kind of adult local dating website, I wasn’t sure how were the things going.
Those guys invited me to go out with them and I didn’t know should I choose just one or go out with all three of them. Then I stopped for a second and started thinking about it. I’m a single woman now and I have a right to go out and grab drinks with anyone I want. So, instead of limiting myself, I used the opportunity to have my cake and eat it. I have to say that for the first time in my life I felt like it was me pulling all the strings and being in control of my life and you know what, it felt amazing!